I believe this to be an admirable idea. I like it a lot, however the execution of it might be difficult. For one the amount of names (I myself can already name 3 people) that would be on the list and the risk of troll names of course.
I would like to make a different offer instead that I hope you will consider. The poem I will post below is a very famous poem written in 1919 about the first World War. It describes the trenches and the poppy which was the only flower that grew in the area where there was heavy fighting and would grow on the graves of the soldiers. This also resulted in the remembrance poppy now. I was thinking we do a reading of this poem in honor of all those loved and lost in war.
In Flanders fields the poppies blow
Between the crosses, row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.
We are the Dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
Loved and were loved, and now we lie
In Flanders fields.
Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields.
I hope you will consider this idea.