Hello Darren,
It's a shame this has come to a report as this was discussed during a QE with a couple of Grove. From my understanding, you were not present during this conversation to talk about this matter.
The time that you mention about Grove and Mara having an interaction was in fact at 11:30, which was a phone call from Ramsey. Our next interaction was us following up with Ramsey's demand of pushing Grove, which occurred at around 12:30. As discussed during the QE.
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As you can see from this clip, Ramsey was saying about Mara not pushing. Listening to this interaction with Ramsey you can clearly tell that Grove wanted Mara to push. If I'm not mistaken, this was not for a BBQ or some form of friendly conversation. Ramsey was in fact bragging about the 2 wins Grove had against Mara, forgetting the 10+ fights we have won prior. From this clip you have provided we can understand how it looks like RDM, however, if you were to include all information about the ongoing beef, interactions we've had and the multiple fights us and Grove have had in the past week then I'm sure we can clear this up as not being RDM.
You mention that you were 'chilling around turf' and that you 'didn't even have a gun'. I believe this was showing a lack of preparation on your side, as you know Mara and Grove have a beef. I'm not too sure if Ramsey passed on the information about the phone call he had with Mara but as you can see from our side, this was/should have been expected from Grove. Prior to this phone call, we had Ramsey on the phone again saying 'If you come down to Grove, it's on sight'. As a fellow E-Gangster, I'm sure you can understand that this was hinting towards a shootout. (In reference to the clip provided below)
I must also mention the highlighted time from your end. In my opinion, this phone call didn’t carry a 10 minute expiry. I understand that if this had been the following day, then the interaction would have needed to happen again in respect of RP. However, Mara’s reaction to Ramsey’s condescending phone call happened just an hour later, which in my view keeps it within valid RP.